The rudeness of people slay me!

You know what? People slay me! This is a long post, I hope you'll follow me until the end. It's worth reading.

There's some rude ass people out there, you know people who have no clue what's appropriate or not to say. I mean whether you are in your 20s or in your 50s you should have gotten a bit of common sense. Shouldn't you have gotten the basic education?

When someone tells you they have decided to leave their significant other, their boyfriend, their whatever mattered to them, it freaking doesn't give you the right to ask over and over again the details of what exactly happened.

If I didn't tell you the details, it's a clue it's none of your business, right? What's up with asking those questions? What happened with minding your own freaking business? It's rude to ask over and over again questions about private matters that DO NOT concern you. IT IS RUDE!!!

I had to tell NoseyAcquaintance (NA) and her husband (NAH) that I'd still be going to dinner on friday but that The Ex Boyfriend wouldn't be there after all. I wanted to be nice and let them know in advance so they wouldn't buy and prepare too much food. Seems easy eh? I called, told her, she asked too many questions, but I ASSumed she got a clue. What do they say about ASSuming eh? , you make an ASS of U and ME? ::::sarcasm:::

This is a quote from a conversation from yesterday with NA, it was BTW church-related, had nothing to do with my dating situation...

NA= I still can't believed it.

ME=...These things happen, it's fine

NA= But exactly, what happened?

ME=...nothing, there's nothing to talk about

NA= as of last week, you two were soo happy, I could see it, what happened

ME=...( I was getting pissed off)...nothing happen NA, like I told you, The Ex Boyfriend and I decided to split, we weren't meant for each other...

NA= I don't get it

ME= ...(thinking about saying WHAT THE HELL????) okay, about the reason I called... (she then interupts me rudly and says)

NA= So...you don't think you guys are going to be back, do you hate him? What happened??? You seemed soo happy!!!

ME= ????? (starting to be really annoyed, my tone was changing)...Like I said, I'm fine, he's fine, lets move on.

NA= So, was it because he was scared? Because NAH was really scared when we started to date.. Maybe it's because you had your place, he had his and you had your pet, he had his!!! Maybe it was sex related!!

ME=...(actually thinking IT'S NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS, NONE, YA HEAR ME????? GET A FREAKING GRIP!!!!)

.....(Taking a long breathe)...I'm happy, that's it. We decided to split, we weren't meant for each other. That's it. Simple as this.

NA= Well, we'll talk about it on friday...

ME= ...Like I told NAH, I don't feel the need to talk about it, there is NOTHING to talk about... So, back to the reason I called, can you let NAH that the item is ready.

NA= oh, okay, I'll set him know and...

ME= ...okay now, I have to hang up, someone just got in and I have to be available. See you on friday!

NA= bye

(and I hung up the phone, really pissed off)

HUH?? What the hell? What happens in my intimate life stays private. It means that I'm going to share with some selected few people that I trust and that are close to me like these people. And yeah, I called SW and told her all about rude ass people and the fact that I'm SOO over it. And what i'll do is that I'll make it clear upon my arrival that if they want to talk about The Ex boyfriend and my dating situation, i'll be leaving. I don't want to talk about it. Period.

I wish I was good at lying, I'd make up something to cancel my presence at that dinner. God, if you're listening, can you do something? I'm going to be firm SW that this isn't something I'm willing to discuss and if that's what they want, I just won't be attending.

And to show that normal people still exist, on tuesday night I babysat my friend's kids, they told me "If you want to talk, we're here, if not we aren't going to ask you questions. .

That, my friends is what normal people do.

A not soo funny post...

Someone I really care about has terminal cancer. We'll call her MsDivineMercy (MsDM, I picked that name because it's one of the devotion she really believes in. MsDM is eighty something years old. She's a single lady who devoted her life to the church as a lay person.

She's been at the local hospital for a week now. I, and many others visit her daily. She learned last night that it was terminal and has started to receive morphine. We already knew, I mean it didn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out but last night was the official DX'd.

I've always told her how much she mattered to me, I'm actually very sad. If you can think of her, pray for her or send her good vibes, it would be really nice. I'm going to go see her after work.

I'm posting this, just for you MsDM, with all my love. May you feel His peace and may your heart be filled with His love in these moments.

Things that make you go HUH!?

Let's just say that I hate when people make up stories and scenarios when nothing was said or done to cause such thing. I can't stand when someone gives me intention or assumes stuff about MY thoughts. They perceive something that's unreal, untrue and unfounded but because they've felt it, they freaking believe it's true.

I know guys, I know...Could I be more confusing? Or a little less specific? Please bear with me.

I don't even know why it shocks me. After 20 something years of living, you'd think I would have gotten used of the fact that 3 people out of 4 are freaks? I guess I haven't.

All of this was started when I got an email from The Ex Boyfriend. Now I need a drink, too freaking bad I'm at work and that it's not even 10 AM yet eh? :)

Back on the market!!!

The Boyfriend and I are done, I'm back on the market.

I'm not going to reveal it all, this isn't a place to air my dirty laundry.The FriendlyBoss (TFB) and his Sweet Wife (SW) and I talked about it for the longest time on friday. I wasn't feeling well, my feelings were hurt, I turned to them and I have no regrets what.so.ever. I have nothing left to hide from them, there's not much they don't know now. He He He!!! I'm totally cool with this by the way.

It's ok, I'm happy, I'm relieved and finally, I feel free. Dis is all going to work out.I was blessed to be supported, surrounded and reassured by people who care about me and have my best interest at heart. So, this is a PSA, I'm back on the market and I want an easy relationship, something that makes me feel good. No freaks, and by that I mean NO FREAKS!!!

SW said to me:

If you don't feel free, If you don't feel you have wings, If there's no chemistry between the two of you, then NoNonsense girl, he isn't the ONE. Love is about feeling happy, you'll know when you meet Him.

I know she's right, she feels that way about TFB and I see other married couple who live the real deal. And that makes me feel soo freaking good! TFB and SW thanks soo much for everything. You guys rock!

Can we rent the church?

I have a little story of people's weirdness.

We go back in time few months ago, we get a call that a couple fromThe area is trying to convince The Parish to have them rent out the church for a civil marriage.

Huh?

Are they serious? I ask a co-worker...

I mean would I ask ask a baptist church to loan me their building for a catholic wedding? Would I ask to rent a synagogue to celebrate something that doesn't fit in their beliefs?We are a church people, not a business, that's total nonsense. What's the point of celebrating a civil marriage INSIDE a catholic church?

Now, I don't have an issue with civil unions, I don't have an issue with couple preferring not to be married within the church, I just can't stand nonsense. That was ridiculous!!!

The couple were lucky I wasn't the one answering their request. :) I would have had issues talking myself not to be a bitch.

Oh and just so you know

Even tho I work for the catholic church and I attend mass ( but I have't been going in 4 weeks for a multiple of not soo good reasons), I don't always agree with the Holy See, no I don't. Now if you want to damn me to hell or excommunicate me, get ready to fight truely yours.

Believing in something doesn't mean to blindly follow everything. I'm a believer but I also I'm a 20 something years old woman livin in 2007. That means my faith is part of who I am but not ALL of it, it means I enjoy life, I have friends, go out, think of men, date, watch and enjoy Harry Potter, eating out and I also think outside the box.

Just in case http://thefoodwhore.com is reading, I don't eat velveeta cheese. ;)

I spend most of my days thinking " That's just unfreakingbelievable".

First message, let me introduce myself

Welcome to my life. I'm a church worker but I'm the No Nonsense type of girl. I can't stand drama queens, I just don't have patience for nonsense anymore. I guess you could say I'm a bitch but au contraire, I just want to enjoy life.

Working for a church is something, as in bursting bubble time BIG time. I'm not whining about my co-workers, they are awesome. I'm talking about church goers. I could tell y'all millions of stories, lets just say I won't give out names. The double standards in a parish life is just mind boggling, as in WTF just happened?

I'll give you a back history, we'll call her MrsJudgmental, always is the first to attend mass and sing in choirs and help out, but she likes to spread out rumors. Anyways, she comes to me back in the fall and shouts

"I've always hated you and believed you were worthless but let me tell you how impressed I am of your work, you are good after all"

WTF??? :::pick up jaws from the floors:::

I stood there, smiled and said thanks butI wanted to yell:

what the hell's wrong with you anyway? Are you going to quit spreading shit about me now? Who are you anyways????

It was hard, I had to control myself but I didn't yell at her, I was a good girl. That's nothing because MrsJudgemental isn't the worse of them all church goers....

Sometimes I hate people...